INFINITE H’s Hoya sheds tears on ‘Immortal Song 2′. OP Wants To Give Him A Hug. And A Kiss. JK.

9:30 pm - 02/02/2013
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INFINITE H‘s Hoya shed tears on the latest broadcast of ‘Immortal Song 2‘.

On the February 2nd episode, singer ALi dedicated Insooni‘s song “Father” to her own. Hoya began to tear up as she began her performance.

The idol explained, “Because I wanted to be a singer, I withdrew from high school. At the time, my parents scolded me a lot, and conversations with my father basically stopped,” expressing his apologetic heart.

Fellow member Dongwoo commented, “This is the first time I’ve seen Hoya cry like this.”

Hoya went on, “[My father and I both don't express ourselves well]. After my debut, my father took the initiative and bravely sent me a text message with a heart. Even then, I responded with short answers,” showing tears.

He stated, “Father, I love you,” and hung his head.



Source: akp + Nuri Lee YT

;___________; come here babby lemme luv you hug you kis--no I'm not gonna take advantage of you on this very vulnerable moment. I promise



EDIT: Added Hoya crying video ;___; Thanks oxygenlove <3
laeryn 2nd-Feb-2013 04:13 pm (UTC)
Through the whole thing I kept thinking: SOMEBODY PLZ HUG HIM GIVE HIM CHOCOLATE DO STH. Baby's so precious ;---;
prettyminstrel 2nd-Feb-2013 04:14 pm (UTC)
aww Hoya. Ali is such an amazing singer, she never fails to emotionally affects me with her singing
xdark_symmetryx 2nd-Feb-2013 04:43 pm (UTC)
Aww HoBaby~
liferule91 2nd-Feb-2013 05:08 pm (UTC)
I remember reading somewhere that his dad used to beat him so i can see why he would reply with short answers.

fatjackinc 3rd-Feb-2013 06:11 am (UTC)
that is so sad ;; poor sweetie
tsuyoi_hikari 3rd-Feb-2013 11:31 am (UTC)
I don't think he beats him like 'abuse' him sort of way. He perhaps just hit him a bit to discipline him as a sign of love. Asian parents do this all the time to discipline their children -- that's why they have high respect to them despite the strict upbringing.
liferule91 3rd-Feb-2013 05:48 pm (UTC)
yeah my mom used to beat me to "discipline" me too. I love my mom but i won't sit here and say that wasn't abusive for her. It's not only asian parents it's parents from minority groups.

I believe in spanking your children but not to the point that your children will resent you for it which is what happened to hoya. He only respects his father NOW. because he isn't getting abused any more. he still probably resents those years he lived under that abusive situation. but he is learning to forgive and forget.
tsuyoi_hikari 3rd-Feb-2013 11:29 pm (UTC)
Are you sure he resents his father? Did he said it out load or say anything particular about it? I thought he feel very apologetic for letting him down and become an idol that why he he cried when he listen to this song.

Can you tell me where do you read that his father beat him part? I don't think his situation is like Leeteuk where he was abuse when he's a kid that left him traumatized even after all the years has passed.
epona 2nd-Feb-2013 05:10 pm (UTC)
why the nugu tag? for ali?
goldynchickie 2nd-Feb-2013 06:23 pm (UTC)
I'm thoroughly enjoying your icon.
secretchord 3rd-Feb-2013 02:43 am (UTC)
I wondered if it was because Infinite H just debuted as a sub-group. I don't think that counts as nugu, really, but whatev.

And hello, there, Jinki...
asnindie 2nd-Feb-2013 05:47 pm (UTC)
His family stuff always upsets me because he's always felt really guilty towards his family by becoming an idol, even though his dad sounded like a douche. So with Infinite H's success I'm really happy for him, hopefully he can feel less burdened now.
gray_fairy 2nd-Feb-2013 06:08 pm (UTC)
I have a lump on my throat after reading this. It's so touching ;_____;
goldynchickie 2nd-Feb-2013 06:22 pm (UTC)
I may or may not have a few tears in my eyes, rn. :'( Poor baby.
oxygenlove I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●2nd-Feb-2013 06:27 pm (UTC)
Video of him crying. Maybe you can add this in the post, OP :)

I've seen him cry twice/thrice after winning and during their concert but the way he cried in this episode is different and I legit teared up.

They asked Dongwoo why he wasn't crying, and Dongwoo said it's because he was so surprised because it's his first time seeing Hoya cry like this.

For those wondering the lyrics of the song:

FATHER (100507 MuBank)

I couldn’t approach a single step – I hope you understand
The tears are saying how much I hoped and hoped

The picture of your lonely back going further away
Makes my heart ache once again

We loved each other, we hated each other
But you held me precious more than anyone and I miss you
You were so close but so unapproachable
Yes, I hated you

Please listen to my story
I need time

We loved each other, we hated each other
But you held me precious more than anyone and I miss you
I only held you deep within my heart
Yes, I loved you

Even after a long time passed, I couldn’t tell you
Yes, I loved you


Edited at 2013-02-02 06:31 pm (UTC)
es2pido Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●2nd-Feb-2013 06:52 pm (UTC)
Hoya and I pretty much share the same father and son relationship. Now I want to cry as well :(
oxygenlove Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●2nd-Feb-2013 06:55 pm (UTC)
aw bb ;__; i hope things have gotten better now just like with hoya.
es2pido Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●2nd-Feb-2013 07:22 pm (UTC)
Well, he's a lot nicer to me lately prolly bc I'm doing well in life now.
oxygenlove Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●3rd-Feb-2013 08:08 am (UTC)
sigh. dads prob just don't like seeing their kids whom they've spent a lot of time and effort nurturing to grow as responsible adults not do anything productive with their lives. though sometimes, dads and kids have a different opinion of what's "productive".
laeryn Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●2nd-Feb-2013 09:10 pm (UTC)
Oh, shit, this song sort ofapplies to me and my dad's relationship as well :'( I know understand Hoya's crying better.
oxygenlove Re: I have a thing for guys who cry prettily ●_●3rd-Feb-2013 08:09 am (UTC)
it probably applies to almost everyone... at least one point in everyone's life, yeah?
oxygenlove 2nd-Feb-2013 06:35 pm (UTC)
I wonder what his family think of his popularity as Kang Junhee in Reply 1997. His father seem to be the typical Busan man and I'm curious what his dad's reaction is on Hoya being on a popular drama set in Busan.
aifurikuri 2nd-Feb-2013 06:56 pm (UTC)
HUGS!!!!
aleexnews 2nd-Feb-2013 06:57 pm (UTC)
omg i couldnt help but cry ;~~; my poor baby, i have a bad relationship with my dad though it's gotten better i guess but still i know what he means and ugh he clearly felt bad about going against his parents back then but it was for the better i think and i hope they're doing better now as a family. ;')
cassie_cloud9 2nd-Feb-2013 08:15 pm (UTC)
Oh my god Hobaby ♥ Let me wipe your tears ;~~~;

Ugh god I lost it the second that first tear slid down his cheek T_T Oh man I understand completely the feeling of not being able to communicate well emotionally with ur father. Thankfully it's gotten better and I hope it does for him too ;~;
wowwh 2nd-Feb-2013 10:59 pm (UTC)
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uledy 2nd-Feb-2013 11:22 pm (UTC)
omg

;_____;

poor baby.
illustratedd 3rd-Feb-2013 02:03 am (UTC)
:( ngl i teared up a bit reading that. poor hoya ;;
dharawal 3rd-Feb-2013 03:01 am (UTC)
That made me cry, I have had a troublesome relationship with my Dad, it's only now that he's almost 80 has it progressed to us being able to say I love you.

I understand exactly how he feels.
cierra_james 3rd-Feb-2013 04:35 am (UTC)
Oh My, Im crying now.
Just want to give the boy a hug. Dongwoo, give him a hug from us all.
HO-AEGI!!!!!!
engraved_16 3rd-Feb-2013 08:46 am (UTC)
omg hoya DDD;
poor bb! but i hope his relationship with his father has at least gotten better now
b1gay4 3rd-Feb-2013 12:25 pm (UTC)
lean on me
weerainbow 3rd-Feb-2013 10:16 pm (UTC)
My goodness I am in tears now. I wasn't expecting the floods of tears, I wasn't prepared for how he was trembling trying not to totally break down ;__; I hope he and his dad get some time together somehow so they can work on getting closer again.
It didn't come as a surprise though to know it was ALi's performance of the song that affected him, she always has such deep emotions in her singing ♥

Editing because I just went and looked up her performance to watch and man alive it is powerful!!!! I'm crying even more now!!! I'm so thankful for my dad.

Edited at 2013-02-03 10:30 pm (UTC)
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