11:07 am - 01/25/2019

Hello counselor case featuring a child abuser (tw for child abuse)

they haven't removed the video but disabled the like/dislike counter

comments from pann
original post: here

1. [+461. -3]
This is definitely not based on love. He's clearly showing that he hates it, but the dad kept on forcing himself on the kid and tormenting him. He seems to be enjoying it on top of it. He should be sent to a mental hospital

2. [+274, -0]
No but isn't he a psychopath.....? The kid is clearly in pain but he's talking like that without any remorse, is he enjoying this?

3. [+233, -1]
You can tell how annoyed the kid is with his expressions and the way he got mad. I can feel how uncomfortable he is with his dad being too close to him and touching him like that as a human. If you know that your kid isn't a possession, then how are you not able to not touch him like that? I feel so bad for the kid. Imagine how ashamed he must be feeling..

4. [+233, -2]
Can that husband stop it already with his wife and his kid!!!!

5. [+200, -3]
No matter how delicious a meal is, if you keep consuming it like a medication, you'll end up being poisoned by it. He's showing way too much affection so it became poisonous. And if the other party clearly doesn't likes it, I think that this can be considered sexual harassment

6. [+193, -0]
I'm so worried about the kid. If you think about the kid, maybe he will learn from this experience and induce shame to other people when he grows up. It's quite scary to see a dad loving his kid like that. He might even learn to use force to show affection even if the other party hates it. It's not like he himself grew up doing everything he wanted to do and the kid is probably growing up in fear. I don't know what his dad's sexual inclination is and it's not even important at this point, I just wished that he stops hurting the kid. The kid is clearly scared of him if he runs away every time he sees the dad, who even chases after their kid and corner them in a scary place and inflict sexual shame, and do skinship that only themselves enjoy, hit their kid even if they don't do anything, yet still is able to call it love? I
don't know whether he was born a pervert, or he's became a pervert because of the way he was raised, but as parents, you should be careful in front of your kids

7. [+163. -0]
Stop being a sexual harasser with your kid and wife. This is sexual harassment. While he makes the wife take care of the kid, the dad goes and touches his penis......... This is just too severe

8. [+153, -0]
If he hates it, just stop you f*cker. What love bullsh*t this is dumbfounding

9. [+148, -5]
So he even enjoys hearing him say he hates it?

10. [+140, -0]
This is abuse

Sources  Pann Choa @soft2seok @chaeerries @erkbri @oct0917 KBS world tv tv.naver
modestgoddess79 25th-Jan-2019 04:24 pm (UTC)
this show is such trash and I see they are continuing their history of gas lighting women and children that are clearly being abused
lil_poisonfrog 26th-Jan-2019 05:38 am (UTC)
Wow perfect summary of this show's premise. Can probably add enabling alcoholism to that too from what I've heard
lydzi 25th-Jan-2019 04:42 pm (UTC)

They better do something about this. I feel gross just by watching people laughing casually.
juhli 25th-Jan-2019 04:50 pm (UTC)
Youngja and Dongyup were not here for that guy, they did their best to reprimand him within the framework of the show. Also Youngja's sharp comment about the other guy who said he used to pull other girls skirts up to show that he liked them. They masked it with humor, but their words were serious i felt like.

To use the word "playful" for this is just so wrong. I don't know if the husband will change because he was searching for excuses and tried to reflect it to her till the end.
vintage_boom 25th-Jan-2019 04:50 pm (UTC)
This show constantly makes light of really serious issues and people in need of serious therapy. Either hire actual counsellors to talk with people on the show or call it "hello! lets laugh at your problems and offer no help". Actual counsellors involved would actually probably benefit viewers and guests and enrich the discussion around mental health and abuse in society.

the fact that this went through several stages of approval and no producer thought...this is beyond lighthearted. this is wrong, this is criminal. is there no ethical oversight at this station?
sra_interesante 25th-Jan-2019 04:57 pm (UTC)
eeww ... i reported this video yesterday , its frustating to see those mcs just laughing ....

at least most of the audience and guests seem umcomfortable to even react, because on top of that guy sound like a total perv and ignorant af and keeps oversharing details like he's proud of this or something *vomits*

its not the first time this show laugh off some really serious topics like this WTF
daynr 25th-Jan-2019 05:00 pm (UTC)
This show was already obnoxious with comedians trying to help people's problems, but this is a whole new level of wrong.
xoxkenzxox 25th-Jan-2019 05:06 pm (UTC)
only watched the 2 minute snippet from twitter but what kind of sick human does this and CONTINUES to do it despite knowing full well that the victim HATES it. Call the Korean CPS. Lock the guy up. That's sick.
idlewilds3 25th-Jan-2019 05:28 pm (UTC)
I hope other family members watching this show will step in to remove the wife and child from
This sick fuck. As for the hosts and any who laugh, they need to be stuck barefoot in a world full of legos.
bea_chan22 25th-Jan-2019 05:33 pm (UTC)
Dude, touch your own private parts, and no one else! I hope he gets jailed, and the kid gets proper therapy.
love_keiko 25th-Jan-2019 05:42 pm (UTC)
this is exactly why i stopped watching the show. there were too many times where ppl with serious problems, whether it's open alcoholics or men who verbally and psychologically abuse their wives, etc are just laughed off.

it's disgusting. and the fact that this show hasnt changed even after facing criticism makes it worse.
thatchicksaywha 25th-Jan-2019 05:59 pm (UTC)
that's absolutely disgusting and i really hope something is done about this..
the cheery sounding music makes this whole situation even more disturbing too
kyulkyung 25th-Jan-2019 06:30 pm (UTC)
i can't believe this trash show is still on air. cancel it already.
nana_the_dwarf 25th-Jan-2019 06:52 pm (UTC)
I've read of older Asian generations being proud of having a baby boy and often playing with their penises because of it, but like... that makes absolutely zero sense to me? And even if it was a thing in the past for whatever fucked up reason, the kid clearly does not enjoy it and the mother obviously knows how fucked up it is enought to send this concern (why not go to the police? I know the stigma it could sadly cause, question was more rethorical than anything.)

I can only naively hope that the producer only added this to the show in hopes that someone would be able to legally call this creep out...I hate knowing that the probabilities of that are slim to none. Hopefully though, this fucker showing his mug and openly admitting that he molests his son on air will alert the kid's family and close ones, or even a fucking neighbor, so that they will alert the authorities.
goshipgurl 25th-Jan-2019 07:12 pm (UTC)
what the fuck did i just watch????? why the hell did they even invite this guy? they had a phone call with the son before the show and he said that he doesn't like it, why did they not report him to the police then?
and their reactions, wtf???? they're just sitting there, laughing and playing it off?

this show is fucking disgusting and this guy needs to go to jail. i can't believe that he's dumb enough to admit all of this on national tv but i guess that's good for the kid
minho_lover 25th-Jan-2019 07:21 pm (UTC)
my sister just told me about this ep! and F*CK that monster! like hes a pedophile who think its ok to prey on his kids because they "belong" to him. this show been trash and the hosts suck and piss me off the most
rainstormraider 25th-Jan-2019 07:29 pm (UTC)
This show either needs to be ended or revamped.
This show has always been a racist, homophobic and misogynistic mess and unless they have it led by actual therapists or people with actual credentials rather than comedians who think everything is funny, it will always be a problem. I do not mind when idols go on it, because they can speak to personal experiences and maybe talk openly about some stuff. But a panel that sits there and laughs at the pain of others is just pure evil.
921227 25th-Jan-2019 08:29 pm (UTC)
Honestly this show is only good when its lightheart problems or audience sharing actually fun personality quirks but the majority of it are serious issues that need professional intervention. The premise is highly flawed.

I live in a state where its Must to report suspicion of CA, neglect, etc and it its so frustrating seeing how many of the HC episodes feature incidences that should clearly be reported
annayism 25th-Jan-2019 08:40 pm (UTC)
fuck this show. it needs to end now. they need to get these people professional help instead of laughing in their faces and making them feel uncomfortable....it's sad how they're probably trying to get on this show to just prove that they're being abused or mistreated and hopefully find help but everyone is brushing it off.
blck_ink 25th-Jan-2019 08:43 pm (UTC)
yooo what the actual fuck. i feel sick just watching that short clip but what fuck!! who in their right mind thought it would be okay to give this abuser a public platform and by doing so embarrasing the kid?!!?? i'm for real digusted. your son is verbally saying and showing how he doesn't like to be touched inappropriately yet everyone keeps laughing it off like it's a normal thing. things like this pisses me off and until people don't speak up against this abuse everyone will look the other way. i feel so sorry for that baby and i hope he can get away from his father and get the right help.
angela_derp_otp 25th-Jan-2019 10:55 pm (UTC)
This makes me literally sick just reading about it, I want to throw up and cry.
rosiemotleymind 25th-Jan-2019 11:52 pm (UTC)
I hate this show with a fiery fucking passion. And it feels like through the years the concerns are getting worse and more dire. I would have felt a smidge better if they actually referred ACTUAL PSYCHOLOGISTS but they really just do the bare minimum. This is seriously like the shit cherry on top of the already disgusting cake. I really hope the studio and this disgusting man face repercussions.
jinkiestabi 26th-Jan-2019 03:35 am (UTC)
The way that baby starts to act as soon as that piece of shit "father" says what he does? That says everything.

The PDs saw this story, let it go unchecked for who knows how many stages, and put this baby on national television to air AND EDIT everything like this isn't a serious issue.

Put it all in the garbage. Cancel the fucking show.
weneedmedicine 26th-Jan-2019 03:38 am (UTC)
Nah. No reason for a grown man to be playing with a child's private part for 5+ minutes. Doesn't matter if he's the dad. I hope he chokes and burns in hell.
lizanka23 26th-Jan-2019 04:31 am (UTC)
cancel this show already. they're never going to get professional help on there with psychological counseling because sensationalizing everything and exploiting trauma and abuse brings in the ratings. everyone who allowed this episode to be aired should be fired. the hosts on this show are canceled. i will it into existence. also they better fucking release a sincere apology statement too

Edited at 2019-01-26 04:33 am (UTC)
yxerin 26th-Jan-2019 04:03 pm (UTC)
his show stays fucking terrible ig. there was an episode from 2014 with almost the exact same content - a molester dad with a weird fixation with his son's penis and no one taking it seriously. when i first saw it i almost thought i had ended up in an alternative dystopian dimension or smth, shit was surreal. i had seen several videos of the show before it and i already hated it bc of all the blatant misogyny and the absolute lack of concern for ppl with very obvious mental health issues, but i thought surely, this won’t fly. it's also why i'm not really surprised by this, they got away with it then so why stop now? (you can watch it here if you want, but warning for csa: https://youtu.be/4gkHy97KRZc?t=21m43s )

the show is awful for a myriad of other reasons as well, sometimes i surprise myself with the intensity of my hatred for it. the premise in itself is fucking horrible, i hope it gets laid off and stays dead

Edited at 2019-01-26 04:41 pm (UTC)
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