5:31 pm - 09/03/2019

Ku Hye Sun Shares List Of Rules She Asked Ahn Jae Hyun To Follow During Their Marriage

On September 3, around 8 p.m. KST, Ku Hye Sun shared two photos on Instagram. Later, she added the caption, “Become a human,” which she then changed to, “All I really want is an apology.”

The first photo contains two pieces of paper, one titled “Things that Ahn Jae Hyun should be careful not to do (until March)” and one titled “Things Ku Hye Sun should be careful not to do.”

The list of rules for Ahn Jae Hyun reads:

If drinking outside, drink only until 11 p.m.
Don’t drink to the point of losing consciousness (be moderate).
Don’t be stubborn.
Don’t cause harm to others.
Put away your clothes when you take them off.
Clean up your food and dishes after eating (don’t pile them in the sink).
Put laundry in the laundry room.
Even if you’re feeling good because you’re drunk, don’t yell or slap or use other forms of violence.
Come home by midnight (apart from filming).
Clean up after the cat once every seven days.
Be careful what you say (especially what you say about others).
Put away your shoes.

The list with Ku Hye Sun’s name contains only the word, “Nothing.”

The second photo in the Instagram post shows Ku Hye Sun and Ahn Jae Hyun’s signatures on the back of the paper, suggesting that both of them agreed to this list of rules.

source: kookoo900, soompi, naver

Omona, what do you think of this kind of written agreement between partners? And what do you think about the rules?
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lulufairybubble 3rd-Sep-2019 03:40 pm (UTC)

If somebody gives me a list like this, they are getting served with divorce papers. I'm not a child and you aren't my mom.

juhli 3rd-Sep-2019 04:01 pm (UTC)
Another scenario could have been that they both discussed it and wrote the list together....
infj23 3rd-Sep-2019 03:41 pm (UTC)
I know the bitterness and the satisfaction from public humiliation she feels...but I wish she would walk away now and redirect her pain into someone/thing else other than him :(
tsubaki874 3rd-Sep-2019 03:43 pm (UTC)
I mean I can see how writing out these rules seems a bit extreme, but some couples need it in plain black and white. I had to make a chore list for my husband because he couldn't remember what he needed to do after work, and he does just fine having something tangible to remind him. I guess this is a bit more than a chore list, but everything she's written down isn't unreasonable, motherly maybe.
jasmineakaiumi 3rd-Sep-2019 05:53 pm (UTC)
I don't make a list for my bf (we live together), but I basically just remind him what needs to be done and it gets done. he's super proactive and great at doing stuff around the house, just forgetful. thinking of putting up a whiteboard of stuff that needs to get done during the week for both of us, because i forget too tbh haha
scionofawhisper 3rd-Sep-2019 03:45 pm (UTC)
We don't really know anything about their marriage or context of this stuff, or what was really going on between them. It's impossible to judge and really, why she's sharing this. -_-
greasetastic_x 3rd-Sep-2019 03:48 pm (UTC)
I think that everything is pretty reasonable especially if he signed and agreed to it. You would think that some people would have the common knowledge/decency to follow most of this stuff but a lot of people don't.
babyjenkski 3rd-Sep-2019 03:50 pm (UTC)
I honestly believe that whatever works for married couples, they should follow it. If making a list of rules is something they agreed on from the start, then go for it. But then again my marriage didn't work so who am I to comment lol
juhli 3rd-Sep-2019 04:05 pm (UTC)
Even if you’re feeling good because you’re drunk, don’t yell or slap or use other forms of violence.
I mean, it could mean like friendly slaps etc., like overexcited drunks...but "other forms of violence" sound concerning.... and how often did he drink himself till blackout that there was a rule like this o.o
it definitely doesn't seem like this list was made at the beginning of the marriage....
pseudo_shigure 3rd-Sep-2019 07:45 pm (UTC)
yea that one is a flag for me
honeebs 3rd-Sep-2019 04:12 pm (UTC)
Whatever works...oh wait it didn't.
Messy, keep putting your business on SM.
adenar 3rd-Sep-2019 04:23 pm (UTC)
Sorry this was meant to be a standalone comment!

Edited at 2019-09-03 04:23 pm (UTC)
adenar 3rd-Sep-2019 04:23 pm (UTC)
Honestly, this looks like a last-ditch effort to get him to act decently and/or do the bare minimum in the house to me.

I don't think writing out a list for him was the right thing to do in this relationship but yeah I can imagine other people making it work, in a relationship with open and honest communication.
torontok 3rd-Sep-2019 04:33 pm (UTC)
This is why premarital counselling should be a thing
ashdevilrun23 3rd-Sep-2019 04:33 pm (UTC)
I mean she’s not asking too much from him based on the list..
lydzi 3rd-Sep-2019 04:59 pm (UTC)
Ia. Alexa, play Respect by Queen Aretha.
ostsiberia 3rd-Sep-2019 04:50 pm (UTC)
Damn why is it so hard to find a man who will do the bare minimum without an itemized list? >_
lydzi 3rd-Sep-2019 04:54 pm (UTC)
Wow. If she had to write down stuff like that it only means he was a propre nightmare to begin with...

She truly should have ditched him from the starr. She was probably in love or trying too much or too proud to admit how he was a failure, idk... It's sad.
nekobot 4th-Sep-2019 12:19 am (UTC)
He totally love bombed her and I think women aren't yet as informed about this kind of behaviour and able to differentiate when affection is genuine or just an attempt at manipulation. The fact that he was willing to speak so highly of her on every tv show he was on yet couldn't even be arsed to clean up his own cat shit at home should have been a major warning to her.
revertigo 3rd-Sep-2019 05:56 pm (UTC)
Lol girl.... you were winning the divorce. Keep this to yourself.
katheli 3rd-Sep-2019 05:58 pm (UTC)
kinda seems like this was doomed lol

but ngl neither of them come off very well in this situation, he seems to be an absolute asshole and she's dragging out all the dirty laundry in public
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