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gigabytexx 8th-Nov-2019 02:54 pm (UTC)
My ex co-workers also said the same, if I'm no longer comfortable then blocking him is just fine. One of my friend was already sick of his insensitive messages (just now, he saw her latest photo and asked why she's getting 'chubby' 😅😅) and my other friend despite being super nice to him, is already at the point where she doesn't know what to say whenever he mentioned that he wants to die...... I gotta be honest I cant handle such conversation.

I really want to tell him everything that I dont like about him and things that were happened 7 years ago between me and his family, and tbh YES!!! his dad!! I feel like the main point that ruin everything also mainly because of his dad. I actually was already trying to forget the fact that he was lying etc, I tried to be understanding of his situation. I was ready to hang out with him again when he's already able to go out by himself, but when I found out his dad thought bad of me and eventually influenced him to think I tried to take advantage of his situation, it's just over. What's the point I stayed for 9 months trying to salvage the studio (another part is also bec we feel bad to leave him just like that) WITH NO PAY but his dad thought we stayed bec we had no place to go and that we're completely dependent on the boss. Wtf no, I could ditch everything and build a new life if I wanted to! We used to have a lot of workers but all of them left almost immediately but me + 2 workers + 1 intern stayed. There's also 1 IT guy who knew him barely a month had to help us raising money as well...... all because we cared. But none of that seem mattered and this IT guy gets the most shit after me & he was also accused of trying to take over our studio wtf. It's crazy when I think about how his dad's negativity can influence that much while the boss is vulnerable.

But then again....... all those left with things that have never been said. His dad wouldn't directly confront me, I too wouldn't bother to come and explain. I felt like everything was already broken. Unfortunately the boss didn't know anything about this :/ After all if he finally knows... whats the point? His character and mine dont match, he has this annoying attitude embedded in his DNA whether he's sick or healthy. It's just since he couldn't work and have to stay at home seeing his dad more often, he gets even more negative now. Too much bad influence which I can't do anything anyway.

The idea of writing a draft about it is genius, I've never thought about it. I doubt he will somewhat come to me through chats, I dont even know what kind of face I need to put up if one day I meet him face to face. But I will write it down this essay lol.

Apparently he blocked my IG back, for now I want to think he will finally move on from me and not trying to think he can be friends with me again. I sincerely hope for him to be better in mind, he's been doing social activities like visiting orphanage etc although I understand there are more burden he has in mind, but I really want him to be in a good state.

Ah I'm sorry you've been through this before :(((
Wow depression really sucks I hate how it changes a lot of things. I'm so glad you're in a good place now.

Thank you so much for responding and gave me things that I need!

Have a good day(s) ^_^
gathyou 8th-Nov-2019 03:15 pm (UTC)
Well it's a relief in a way that many people understand where you're coming from and why you're taking this decision. Go for it!!! Especially if he blocked you back on Instagram - it's a good moment to cut ties while he's not actively trying to keep up, and it might take a while before anything else come up.

This sound like such a shitty situation to be in. Glad you're already out of it, and I hope you can also move on mentally from this experience. Same for the people who worked at the studio with you/stayed during difficult times. I don't think I would have been able to stay so long without pay, it's really admirable!

Writing letters to people I had issues with had always been a way for me to process all the information available without getting lost in details or anger, and also a way to process my own feelings about it. I have a folder on my old computer filled with letter I never sent but that all made me feel better XD and the ones I do use to send a message help keep some distance, in my behaviour like with my words. It's also really soothing to know that if something bad happens, you're ready :)

Thanks :) I'm doing better now, therapy was clearly my best ally, but it took me so long to even accept that I needed therapy. I hope your ex-boss finds help, but again, you can't be expected to share this burden as an ex-coworker who was never close to him. You already did so much!
Have a good day too <3
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